How preparation can help you take action

I can’t imagine how many times the words “if only” have come to mind when someone has had the opportunity to achieve or obtain something they always wanted but didn’t take any action.

I know those words have gone through my mind enough times in the past when thinking about changing jobs, buying a house, starting a business, or even beginning a new relationship. It’s a phrase that makes us think about the outcome after the event, whether that outcome was good or bad. It’s what we also sometimes refer to as hindsight.

But how many times is it really down to a fear of failure or simply not taking any proactive steps to support our decision-making in the first place?

There is a familiar saying: “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Yet, in life, how many times do we really take the time to prepare?

Did we make those checks on the neighbourhood before buying that house? Did I really know that person before starting that relationship? Did I do any research on that marketplace before starting that business? Did I prepare enough for that interview? Was that the right time to make that change? Did I seek any help beforehand?

Taking a step back and giving ourselves the opportunity to reflect before we act can help us make more informed decisions and reduce the likelihood of asking “if only” afterwards.

However, at times, we may benefit from help and support to move forward. In life, we don’t have all the answers and, like a sportsperson, we may choose to work with a coach to help us along the way. This could be someone who helps us see what we’re not seeing, offers an objective perspective, helps us address limiting beliefs, asks questions that encourage reflection and supports us in remaining accountable.

You see, if you put your dreams, aspirations and future into the hands of others – your company, your boss, your partner or even your parents – you risk not going where you want to go and not doing what you want to do. After all, if you are not working to realise your own dreams, you may find yourself working to achieve someone else’s.

A coach may help you recognise your own strengths and abilities, consider the changes you want to make and create your own path forward.

So, after reading this, what are you going to do?

Say “if only” or take action towards your goals and aspirations?