10 questions for better work-life balance

If you are fed up with the struggle of the juggle, if you want to create a work-life balance that suits you, and if you feel stuck, powerless and frustrated because you don’t know where to start, read further.

Work-life balance is a complex topic, and it is this complexity that makes it difficult to make changes. As with everything, when so many elements are part of it, it is difficult to see the wood for the trees.

But by asking yourself the 10 key questions below, you are on your way to making fundamental changes.

Work-life balance has everything to do with lifestyle. Lifestyle is related to a way of living and refers to your standard of living. It is about health, work, pleasure, career, leisure, family, social life and spiritual development.

Anyone who has created a lifestyle in which all these elements are represented in a way that works for them has created a work-life balance that serves their wellbeing and happiness.

If you want to make a start with a more balanced work-life, go through the questions below to help you see things more clearly.

10 questions for better work-life balance

Which areas of my life are “out of sync”?

Maybe you will discover that it is not as bad as it feels.

What is upsetting me?

If you know which particular situations or encounters are unsettling, you will have insight into the psychological impact of those situations. From here, you can work on changing your perceptions and reactions.

Where and when do I lack confidence?

Confidence is a great skill or way of being that helps us face different challenges. Understanding where and when your confidence levels are low will support you in making the changes you need.

Where do I lack control?

Control is very important in the concept of work-life balance, and often there is a sense of not having control at all.

Where can I take control?

Even though life offers situations that are out of our control, there are also lots of situations where we can take control. Control can have different shapes and forms, and it is important to take control where you can.

What can I change right now?

Looking at your current situation, what can you change today that will benefit a healthier work-life balance? Taking charge at this moment in time is empowering.

What are my reasons for not making those changes?

Be aware of what is holding you back and where you are procrastinating.

What can I change in the near future?

Solutions are not always directly available, but that doesn’t mean you should not look at long-term changes.

How do I plan those changes?

Changes that take place in the future can easily be forgotten. Write them down in a plan as a reminder and a facilitator of your actions.

How do I create the frame of mind that helps me achieve a healthy work-life balance?

A lot of our perception of life is in our mind and informed by our mindset. However, this is an area we often don’t know how to take control of.

Taking charge of your mind and creating a positive outlook can be helpful when you want to create a better work-life balance.

Now you know which questions to address to create a healthier work-life balance. Of course, the next challenge is to find the answers.

The views expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of Life Coach Directory. Articles are reviewed by our editorial team and offer professionals a space to share their ideas with respect and care.

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Written by Mariette Jansen
Weybridge, Surrey, KT13
Dr Mariette Jansen (Dr De-Stress) is a life coach / psychotherapist and author of two best-selling selfhelp books on Narcissism. She grew up with a narcissistic mother and has first hand experience of the emotional abuse. Focus areas of her coachng...
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