About me
Hi, I'm John.
There is one relationship that you have that will drive your thoughts, feelings, and actions - the relationship you have with yourself.
Whatever you are trying to achieve in life, the goals that you set and outcomes you desire are all influenced by how you relate to yourself. Whether you go for things and they never seem to work out. You procrastinate or overthink and then never get things done, or miss out on opportunities. Or, you struggle with something like imposter syndrome or believe that if you share your thoughts and emotions, you are a burden in some way.
I have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples over the last 18 years to help them to understand how the relationship they have with themselves impacts the relationships they have in their lives.
The beliefs you hold onto about yourself and/or relationships will lead to outcomes you experience. You may find you get stuck in certain patterns or cycles; you choose different things or people, but you always end up with the same or familiar outcomes. This can be impacted by many things, but relationships are usually the key: Whether it's from your childhood, past partners, or relationships you are currently experiencing, they all have an impact.
Have you ever noticed that your relationships follow similar patterns with the same outcomes? Perhaps someone always cheats, they back off quickly, and you don't understand why, or you never feel like their priority? All of these can impact your self-worth, esteem, and confidence levels. How does this reflect in your self-talk, on what you deserve and can have in your life?
It has been said that therapy and coaching are different, and this is true. They each seek to do different things, but sometimes you can't move forward without doing both.
My approach is called Therapeutic Coaching, and these are blended to get the best results possible. A deeper exploration of things using my counselling background and ways to move forward with coaching, in my opinion, is the best way to understand yourself and resolve any relationship issues that you are going through.
My client results are a testament to this, with several on my website and Google reviews.
1-2-1 coaching is available face-to-face in Cheshunt or online.
I look forward to hearing from you and helping you to create and attract what you want in your life.
Training, qualifications & experience
Author, Speaker, Documentary Maker, and Podcast Host (The Relationship Guy).
Want to find out a bit more about me before working together? Visit my resources page on my website.
If I had a personal coach, I would have achieved what I was actually capable of and experienced much healthier and sustainable relationships. It has taken me years of self-development to get where I wanted to be. I have been on that long journey, so that you don't have to.
Qualifications:
- Diploma in Coaching and Consultancy
- Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
- Diploma in Psychology
- Master Coach Certification
- Certified Goal Success and Transformational Coach
- Diploma in Integrative Hypnotherapy
- NLP Practitioner
- Certified DISC Personality Profiler
- ILM & OCN Qualified Mediator
I have also had the privilege of being a featured contributor to the Life Coach Directory Happiful Magazine - How to Build a Healthy Relationship!
Experience:
- Counsellor - private practice and NHS - 2007 - present
- Coach - 2012 - present
I have also won numerous coaching awards since 2022.
Member organisations
The Association for Coaching is one of the leading professional bodies for Coaches and Organisations.
The Association is made up of a number of different membership categories, e.g. Associate Member (AMAC), Member (MAC), Accredited Member (AC Accred), with the different categories standing for different levels of training and experience. Accredited Members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.
The Association has a Code of Ethics & Good Practice and a Complaints Procedure.
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
Areas of coaching I deal with
Other areas of coaching I deal with
The relationship you have with yourself.
Photos & videos
Fees
£150.00 - £3,000.00
Free initial telephone or online session
Health Insurance/EAP
Additional information
1-2-1 coaching starts at £150 for a one off 90 minute session.
Packages are:
£3000 (or £1000 per month) - 3 months of personal coaching: No limit on weekly sessions in this time period: PLUS: A free copy of my book ‘The P.E.O.P.L.E. Programme’: A free link to watch my documentary: A DISC Personality Profile: Access to my online 6 Things Relationship Programme: And valuable contact in-between coaching sessions via email/text/Whatsapp: If you don't believe you are where you want to be after this time after putting everything into practice, then I will give you an extra month of coaching for FREE.
If you don't believe you need all the extras:
Basic 6 x 60-minute package: £600 (instalments available).
When I work
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Further information
Although my signature programmes are called the Secure You and Secure Partner Method and follow an outline, I know we are all unique, and each programme is tailored to meet your personal needs.
