About me
I'm a life and relationship coach.
I'm Dom, and HAPI is the coaching, facilitation and personal development practice I've built from over 30 years of experience. I'm a certified NLP Master, a qualified counsellor, and the author of the HAPI book, built around a simple framework I use in every conversation that matters:
Hear · Acknowledge · Plan · Initiate.
Over the last three decades I've supported individuals, couples and entire families to find happiness and fulfilment. There are very few human challenges I haven't come across.
I've supported people to:
- Climb out of emotional pits
- Reconnect with those who matter to them
- Find new hope
- Develop in existing and new career spaces
- Influence others during conflict
- Find happiness and success
- Love and be loved
- Battle and destroy their internal limitations
- Change their own inner dialogue
- Move at speed from where they are to where they want to be
- Come to terms with, and find peace with, their past
- Accelerate toward their happiness
- Navigate loss and grief
- Work with ADHD and recognised neurodivergence
Having spent years developing these skills, I bring a wide range of tools that won't just help in our sessions; they'll continue to serve you long after we've finished working together.
If you want something in your life to genuinely be different, book a chemistry session with me. It might be the only session you need right now.
What people say
"Working with Dom is one of the best decisions I have made in the last decade, both for my career and personally. He is honest, perceptive, generous, brave, bold, witty and curious. He relentlessly sees the potential in others to grow and develop, and gives freely of his time, efforts and resources to support this. He has vast experience navigating difficult and complex issues and getting to the root of them quickly and accurately. His calm demeanour and well-timed, insightful questions ensure growth happens efficiently but meaningfully."
- Gemma Rabbini, Business Owner
“As a coach, Dom was particularly strong in getting to the heart of a challenge. Using simple tools and a genuine commitment to my personal development, he helped me find resolution to a number of challenges, some of which had troubled me for some time."
- Esther, Mum, Wife and Senior Executive
"I have worked with Dom in both group development sessions and on a 1:1 coaching basis. In both scenarios, Dom creates a supportive space for learning and change, with an ability to give honest, clear and targeted feedback, always with support for individual learning at its core. If you're looking for someone to facilitate your personal and/or business development and growth, you need look no further."
- Peter Nickson, Senior Global Director
How coaching can help
Committing fully to coaching takes guts, your excuses evaporate, and you're left holding yourself to your best self. Through our work together you can:
- Create outcomes and goals that are compelling and attainable
- Push past your constraints to accomplish more than you thought possible
- Learn life skills that stay valuable long after our coaching relationship ends
- Build a consistent, positive effect on your circumstances and relationships
- Recognise and learn to handle conflict well
- Boost your confidence and self-esteem
Coaching is an investment and it can become a cost if you don't benefit from it. That's why I only work with people I believe can genuinely benefit from my style and approach, and who bring real commitment to the process.
What you can expect
Our first meeting is a chemistry session. We listen to each other, reflect, and then agree whether, and how we move forward together. It's not personal; it's simply about our mutual levels of belief, comfort and commitment. It's your chance to ask anything you want, including questions like:
- What beliefs underpin your approach to coaching?
- How much time do you invest in your own development?
- How is your work supervised?
- What's your professional background?
- What is being coached by you actually like?
- How will you know our relationship is working?
If we agree to move forward, we'll find a day and time that works for you, then go deeper into the observations and thinking that came out of the chemistry session, and agree exactly how we'll work together.
Ready to find out what's possible? Book a chemistry session and let's begin.
Training, qualifications & experience
- NLP Master Practitioner
- High Performance Coach
- Certified Counsellor - TQUK
- Self As Instrument - Roffey Park
Member organisations
The Association for Neuro Linguistic Programming (ANLP) is a UK Association for NLP Professionals.
Areas of coaching I deal with
Fees
£90.00 - £125.00
Free initial online session
Additional information
Our sessions will be 60 minutes long. Fees are payable at the time of booking and are non refundable.
When I work
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Pricing flexes around the time you book. For further information on timings and pricing email hello@hapime.co.uk
Further information
I don't recognise hierarchies, titles or privilege. I see everyone as equal. I love what it is to be a human and believe it is a priviledge to help and support others to reach their full potential.
I love the work of Eckhart Tolle and tend to be very present in my work. I believe in non attachment and that happiness lives in action.
