Stearne Birkenstock-Simon

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Mindset and Relationship Transformation Coach, CLC, NLP-P

About me

Helping You Build Confidence and Create Relationships That Last

I believe that the way we think shapes the way we live. The stories we tell ourselves influence our confidence, our choices, and the quality of our relationships. Sometimes those stories lift us up. More often, they quietly hold us back.

My deepest value has always been making a difference. Once I realised this I wanted to impact lives in a more personal way. Today I help people break free from self doubt, fear, and limiting patterns so they can build confidence and create relationships that feel supportive and fulfilling.

Clients often describe me as approachable, empathetic, and a natural listener. My coaching style is warm, structured, and practical. I believe in creating a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore what is holding you back while also learning the tools and strategies to create lasting change. This is not about quick fixes. It is about empowering you to build the mindset that supports the life and love you really want.

I live in London with my partner of 20 years and our dog, Apollo. My own long term relationship has shown me that love thrives on communication, respect, and choice. These lessons shape the work I do with clients who want to date with more clarity or strengthen the relationships they already have.

What I Can Help You With
✅ Breaking free from negative thoughts and self doubt

✅ Building clarity and confidence in your personal and professional life

✅ Navigating dating and choosing the right partner with intention

✅ Strengthening communication and connection in your relationship

Why Work With Me
Coaching is more than my profession. It is my purpose. I believe the right support can change everything. My role is to help you see new possibilities, give you the tools to achieve them, and walk alongside you as you take each step forward.

If you are ready to stop second guessing yourself and start creating the life and relationships you deserve, I would be honoured to work with you.

📩 Message me today to book your free discovery call.

Training, qualifications & experience

  • Personal Performance Coaching Diploma
  • Certified NLP Practitioner
  • Helping people create meaningful change in both their personal and professional lives. I work with individuals who feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or ready for something more from life and relationships.

    With over 15 years of corporate leadership experience alongside my work as a certified coach and NLP Practitioner, I bring both real-world understanding and compassionate support to my coaching. Whether you’re a 9-to-Fiver navigating pressure, a high achiever seeking greater fulfilment, or someone wanting more confidence, clarity, my coaching is designed to help you move forward with purpose.

    I help clients overcome limiting beliefs, strengthen confidence, improve relationships, and reconnect with who they truly are. My approach is calm, supportive, honest, and focused on lasting personal growth, emotional resilience, and meaningful connection. Based in London, I work with clients across the UK and internationally through remote coaching sessions.

Member organisations

ANLP
The Association for NLP (ANLP)

The Association for Neuro Linguistic Programming (ANLP) is a UK Association for NLP Professionals.

Areas of coaching I deal with

My specialisms

Executive coaching
After 15+ years in global corporate leadership, I help driven executives apply the same clarity, intention, and strategic execution to their relationship lives as they do to their careers.
Limiting beliefs
Most limits exist only in our heads. I help you uncover the hidden stories keeping you stuck, reframe how you handle self-doubt, and get out of your own way so you can take real, bold action.
Work-life balance
Having seen how burnout drains potential, I blend tailored mindset coaching with practical strategy to help clients align their values, reclaim their time, and thrive at work and home.

All areas

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Fees

£80.00 - £100.00
Free initial online session

Health Insurance/EAP

  • Vitality

When I work

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London, Greater London, SW9

Type of session

Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Couples

Key details

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Online platforms

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