What is self-love?
18th November, 20140 Comments
Written by: Ayesha Giselle Dornelly
Self-love is the key to your growth and evolution. Self-love allows you to be more tolerant to life’s frustrations, allowing you to create close connections and an attractive personality. Self-love is the most important factor if you want to live a happy and satisfying life.
Here are 22 components of self-love:
A sense of comfort and ease with yourself whereby you accept all that you are, your strengths, weakness and understand that you are of a ‘unique worth’.
Acknowledgement, recognition and admiration of your individual, unique qualities.
A clear understanding of your personality, strength, weakness, qualities and flaws. The more self-aware you are, the easier it is to understand and relate to others.
Looking after yourself. Taking care of your physical, spiritual, emotional and mental health. Increasing your well-being through self-care behaviours.
Being gentle, empathetic and showing kindness to oneself. Being understanding to your current situation.
The degree to which you like yourself and are willing to challenge yourself. Your self-confidence is the positive image you have of yourself.
The power within oneself to take full responsibility for your life and by taking action to create it. The power over your perceptions, the power over how you react to situations, and the power to do what is necessary for your own self-growth.
The extent of which you are in control of your life.
The degree to which you value yourself. Self-worth can only be self-generated by having a high opinion of yourself.
The degree to which you rate yourself and hold yourself in high regards.
The degree to which you believe deep inside that you are worthy and deserving of the good things that you are about to bring into your life.
12. Positive self-image:
Feel good about yourself, having a positive image of how you see you and view yourself.
Unwavering commitment to the truth about yourself and how your actions, thoughts, and choices affect your life and the people around you.
The degree to which you clear out negative self-judgement and negative self-criticism. Remembering that you are human and will always making mistakes, which is all part of the learning process. Allowing yourself to let go of past hurts and disappointments you have endure when you felt that you let yourself down or didn’t have access to the resources, knowledge, or the support you needed when you made the decisions which hurt you.
Ability to look inside yourself for the answer. The confidence you have in your inner voice, inner knowing, and inner feeling or image your inner wisdom shows you.
Making choice that honour your scared soul, having pride in oneself and behaving with dignity.
Consistently choosing to create opportunities to allow yourself to receive and experience play, pleasure and fun. Inviting opportunities for happiness and feeding your soul with joy.
Allowing yourself the freedom of expression, being unapologetic, allowing the real you to shine.
The ability to rely absolutely and totally on yourself. To be the master of your own life. ‘Self-reliance is the single universal quality that truly successful individuals share’- Fiona Harrold
To worship yourself and having integrity in one self’s beliefs and actions.
‘Fulfilment by oneself of the possibilities of one’s character or personality’. The ability to distinguish the real (true self), from the unreal (the ego).
Liberation! No need to wait for others approval or the feeling of having to prove yourself. Accepting who you are and where you are now. Appreciating and being in agreement with yourself.
If life is not working for you, or you are finding it difficult getting and maintaining satisfying relationships with others then you may be lacking in one of the areas of self-love shown above. If this is the case then maybe it is time to work on strengthening those areas of self-love you are lacking in and change your life for the better.
About the author
Ayesha Giselle helps you to create the life that you desire. She believes that “Life works when you love yourself and it doesn't when you don’t”. This is why she is so passionate about helping you to build on the love you have for yourself, as she knows that this will have a profound effect on the other areas of your life.
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