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Does your child sometimes think “poor me” and feel that the whole world is against them? Maybe they think they're unlucky and nothing ever works out right for them? Do they often feel guilty even though they know it wasn’t their fault? This is the ‘victim’ in Stephen Karpman’s 'drama triangle' and it is the opposite of self-esteem. A drama triangle occurs when there are three people taking the roles of victim, persecutor and rescuer. As the drama unfolds the...

The Royal Society for Public Health (RSPH) have launched ‘Scroll Free September’, a month-long campaign to help us negotiate a happier relationship with our phone and social media.

While the initiative is aimed at everyone, it’s especially looking to target young people after their 2017 #StatusOfMind report revealed some worrying statistics. Some key findings from the report include:

91% of those aged 16-24 use the Internet for social networking. Rates of anxiety and depression...

When asked the question: “What is it that you most want for your child?”, most parents I have spoken to have said something along the lines of “I just want them to feel happy within themselves.” Naturally, parents want their child to feel good about who they are, but for adolescents this can seem like an extremely hard task. The internet and social media age hasn’t made this any easier. Snapshots of “the perfect life” are on show everywhere, and this...

As mums and dads, we worry about our children and teenagers, don’t we? In fact, I should own up and admit that like many of my same age friends, I still worry about my children even though they are now in their 20s! The question is, how do we broach the subject of feelings without them closing down? The standard response from most children when asked about how they feel is to say they don’t know. This is usually true. They don’t know. They feel overwhelmed, confused and...

So how do you know what you are good at and which course or job is right for you? It begins with understanding who you are. A hospital wouldn’t function well in a toilet block and a café wouldn’t have many customers if it was in a pigsty. As Rick Warren said, “Before architects design any new building they first ask, "What will be its purpose? How will it be used?" The intended function always determines the form of the building.” In the same way, some animals...

The first few weeks of university are often emotional. You’re excited to be in new place, the next chapter of your life - for some, the first time living alone. But this change can also bring feelings of anxiety, nervousness and you may feel homesick.

Before we hit our twenties, we’re making choices that can affect the rest of our lives. Most of us will feel happy with our choice, after riding out the often-turbulent first term, we settle into our courses, our new routines and our new...

Often, the most talked about aspect of body image and confidence is how adult women are affected. But, a recent survey conducted by Girlguiding suggests that this is perhaps not the most pressing body image issue.

The survey, which questioned over 1,500 young people, revealed that 36% of girls between the ages of seven and 10 say they are made to feel that the way they look is the most important thing about them. Not only this, but 47% of girls aged between 11 and 21 said that the way they...

Feeling confident and positive doesn’t always come easy. There may be times when we feel great, but then there are times when we feel terrible.

Many of us - whatever age, gender, shape or size - will have moments where we feel low, unhappy and stressed. But there are ways you can manage these moments. Learning how to cope with the situation and knowing what to do to pick yourself up is an important skill.

Below we explore the ways some of us here at Life Coach Directory believe you can...

Your child’s next career steps - you know it’s something they’re worried about but the minute you raise the subject, you’re met with an unpleasant response. This is a common concern that parents express to me. You may have a clear, open relationship with your child where they are happy to open up to you about their concerns and feelings. That’s great, but not everyone has that luxury. As a parent of two teenagers myself, I know how difficult it can be. However,...