Reni Oikonomou

I'm a Life Coach specialising in identity, confidence, and clear thinking. I work with people who feel stuck, are navigating a big life or career change, or are struggling with imposter syndrome, self-doubt, stress, or the quiet sense that the life they built no longer fits who they are becoming.

My approach blends deep listening with practical frameworks. I work with the saboteur model from Positive Intelligence, which helps you recognise the inner voices (the judge, the pleaser, the hyper-achiever) that hijack your thinking and drive you towards choices that aren't really yours. I also draw on Internal Family Systems (IFS)- informed coaching, a gentle way to understand the different parts of you, why they conflict, and how to lead yourself from a calmer, clearer place. The result is clear thinking: decisions made from who you actually are, not from fear, old habits, or other people's expectations.

Sessions are one-to-one and online, so you can work with me from anywhere in the UK. My style is calm, grounded, and honest. I listen more than I talk, I ask the questions nobody else in your life will ask, and I'll tell you the truth kindly when you need to hear it.

Before my coaching career, I spent over 20 years in leadership roles in tech, so I understand pressure, ambition, and what it costs to chase success that was never really yours.

Everything starts with a free chemistry call. No pressure, no pitch. A relaxed conversation to see if we're a good fit.

Sessions range from £60 to £120, depending on what you need and how we work together.

I don't coach by the hour in isolation. The real work happens across a series of sessions, so we'll shape something that fits your situation rather than picking from a fixed menu. We sort all of that out on the chemistry call, which is always free and comes with no pressure and no obligation to book.

If cost is on your mind, say so on the call. I'd always rather have an honest conversation about what's realistic than have you quietly rule yourself out.