Nicole Everingham

Relationships can be one of the greatest sources of happiness in our lives, but they can also leave us feeling anxious, stuck, overwhelmed or unsure of ourselves.

I’m an Accredited Relationship and Dating Coach, supporting individuals and couples with dating, relationship challenges, communication and conflict, relationship uncertainty, breakups and divorce, confidence and self-worth, and recurring relationship patterns.

I don’t believe people are broken. Often, the way we think, feel and respond makes more sense when we understand the experiences, beliefs and patterns that have shaped us.

My approach combines thoughtful, therapeutic conversation with practical change. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface, explore the thoughts, emotions and patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and get clearer about what you need and want moving forward.

Where helpful, I also draw on mind-body and emotional regulation techniques, particularly when anxiety, overthinking or difficult emotions are getting in the way. Understanding is an important part of the work, but it isn’t the end point. We’ll turn that understanding into practical strategies and new ways of responding that can create meaningful, lasting change.

I work with individuals and couples in person from my Brighton practice and online across the UK and internationally.

Individual coaching: £95 online | £110 in person
Couples coaching: from £120 online | £135 in person

Packages are also available for those who would like to work together over a number of sessions, offering a reduced rate per session.

A limited number of reduced-fee online sessions are available where cost may otherwise be a barrier.

What clients say
The testimonials below are a selection of verified Google reviews from clients I’ve worked with.

My practice is rated 5.0 Excellent on Google, with 30 client reviews.

Sarah – Couples Coaching: “We found Nicole when we came to a point in our relationship where we would have the same argument. Nicole took the time and effort to get to know us individually and as a couple and really worked with us both around communication and triggers. Nicole helped us greatly to remember why we wanted to remain as a couple but also how to communicate wants, needs and issues without it ending up in a shouting match.”

Lorna – Dating coaching: “Nicole helped me work through a period where I was feeling really low about dating. I’d reached a point where it all felt quite hopeless and discouraging, but having the space to talk things through with her made a real difference. I now feel much lighter, with a clearer plan and a far more positive outlook on dating.”

Olivia – Relationship patterns: “Nicole helped me break down the reoccurring blocks I seemed to hit in every romantic relationship I’ve ever had. I finally feel like I can have a healthy and stable relationship. And my relationship with my partner has never been more solid and strong.”

P Clair – Relationship clarity: “My main goal was to make a decision to either stay or leave my relationship with my partner, and YES, I 100% achieved it! With Nicole’s perspective, insight, and tools, I was able to make a decision that truly worked for me.”

June – Separation & divorce: “She has helped me navigate a really painful separation after a 45 year marriage. With her help I am rediscovering who I am and getting my self confidence back.”

Stephanie – Break-up & individual coaching: “I went to Nicole after a break-up as I wanted to understand myself better and close the chapter on my relationship. She listened, was empathetic and helped me navigate through the confusion, anxiety and insecurities I was facing. She introduced many useful strategies such as reframes, which I still use today.”

Kate – Dating patterns & self-belief: “Nicole is open, friendly and easy to talk to. Throughout my sessions, Nicole has listened and has given me some invaluable tools to help me navigate dating patterns, relationships and my negative self-belief. I feel much more positive moving forward into this year knowing I have resources to guide me.”

C&N Johnson – Couples coaching: “Working with Nicole was an absolute pleasure. She managed to break down one of the most challenging events with practical, reassuring, and compassionate advice and tools. Nicole offered a calm, safe space to share really difficult thoughts and feelings, and we never failed to leave a session with greater clarity and a deeper understanding of our own actions. We will forever be grateful for Nicole’s support and encouragement.”

S Bishop – Relationship patterns & attachment: “Nicole effortlessly helped me uncover the root cause of my relationship issues by giving me the space to focus on myself. Through her compassionate approach, I identified my repeating patterns and healed my attachment injury, enabling me to move forward with confidence. I now understand my triggers and have clear strategies to respond consciously. I now have a deeper understanding of who I am, what I want, and how to express myself better.”

Susie B – Relationship clarity & communication: “I was at a crossroads and Nicole was able to help me gain clarity on my situation. The sessions allowed me to work through what I want and need, and how to feel more confident. I felt comfortable opening up to her straight away. I'm now able to express myself to my partner and we understand each other better.”

Emma J – Break-up & moving forward: “Nicole’s coaching helped me navigate a complicated break-up with clarity and confidence. Within just a few sessions, I felt in control of my thoughts and ready to step bravely into a new chapter. Her techniques and exercises were inspiring and helped me pinpoint what truly matters to me and what I want in life. After each session, my mind felt clearer, my emotions more settled, and my confidence in decision-making greatly improved.”

Harry – Confidence & relationships: “Nicole was excellent in her work and was super helpful in guiding me through my self-doubt and the issues I needed to overcome in a gentle and nurturing way. She is great at spotting areas to work with the right tools to help work through problems. I’m far more confident in myself and have techniques to help me when I’m struggling. When I start a new relationship, I now know what I would like from it and what I can offer to others.”