Perfectly imperfect

Today I want to focus on the killer concepts of perfection, judgement and having to be right.

Most people's understanding of the word 'perfection' is the fear of failure, rejection and loss... 

My understanding of perfection is that everything is just as it is meant to be. It is simply a beautiful sign (good or bad, right or wrong, not positive or negative).

Success is simply stumbling from one failure to another, with no loss of enthusiasm... My ego says my vulnerability is my weakness, my disdain, my disgust, my curse... But my soul knows it is equally and paradoxically my power, my strength and my blessing.

We will only move forward when we finally accept our flaws, weaknesses and insecurities. We were made to true perfection, this does not mean that we are good at everything, nor are we right. 

The desire to morph and grow through non-judgement, expansion and meaningful change drew me to the study of 'access consciousness', and I quickly resonated with its key teachings... "All of life comes to me with ease joy and glory".

Access consciousness is a different point of view about life. It allows you to change anything you cannot change and create everything you desire in a different and easier way. The aim of access is to create a world of consciousness and oneness, where everything exists and nothing is judged. 

The 'access bars' are 32 bars of energy that run through and around your head that connect to different aspects of your life. We call all of the points you touch when using this modality 'the bars'. 

There are bars for healing, body, control, awareness, creativity, power,ageingg, sex and money; 32 different ones in all. Each bar corresponds with that aspect or area of your life that it is named. Touch one bar and you begin to clear away the energy locked up in that area or aspect of your life just by touching it.

Access shines a light on those areas in life where most people have swept the good, the bad, and the ugly under a carpet or shoved them in a corner for no one to see, including them. Access shows you where you've been cutting off your awareness, hiding your capacities, living in judgment in order to survive, to fit in, to benefit and to not lose.

It does so through giving you practical, simple tools to change what hasn't been working (finances, relationships, work, business, parenting, etc.) into something that does.

It also assists your body to let go of the residue and stress that's been created in your body through trillions of years of being unaware and trying to get life right. When your body can let go and when you let go of functioning from thinking or feeling, you become free to be who you really are, not who you've been pretending to be or not to be.

The opposite of simply being, is judgement... and judgement is restrictive. 

Think... If you judge a fishes ability to climb a tree it will forever be trapped in its own inadequacy and fear?! 

Just being will help you figure out your purpose, accepting your darkness as well as your light and loving and accepting every part of yourself. Let the fish just be as a pure expression of its wriggly, floppily perfection.

What life would you like to choose? What would you like to create? What else is possible that you've never considered?

The views expressed in this article are those of the author. All articles published on Life Coach Directory are reviewed by our editorial team.

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Written by Denise McNally, BSc Hons, GMBPsS, MAC
Belfast BT9 & Dungannon BT71

Denise McNally, BCc (hons), MAC, Mbpss

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