I have been gainfully employed my whole life that’s 40+ years so far. I’ve been in sales, operations and a director of several companies. I am also a lifelong horsewoman studying Natural Horsemanship since 1997. In 2018 I stepped out of our office and daily running of our advisory business and began what I thought was retirement. Turns out I’m not done yet.
Throughout my working career I have been a self-developer. Always wanted to be a better communicator, be taken seriously, to be heard… In 2004 I was asked “Why do you get in your own way?” Right there in 2005 I began a journey to find out. By 2010 I was a Neuro Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner. From there I continued to expand my knowledge adding studies in Relational Organisational Gestalt, Non-Violent Communication, Spiral Dynamics, Negotiation and Conflict Resolution, Love Languages, Matters of Consent, Attachment Styles and how to handle undiscovered trauma among others. The 5 Love languages lead me to wonder about communication at the intimacy level and I was wanting more information. I have coached many people over the years it has given me tremendous pleasure to offer a safe place to talk about literally anything and everything.
The one subject that comes up over and over is sex, its impact on a relationship, from how great it can be, to where is it? In this area I was stuck in a sexless marriage, I lacked a way of really knowing how to help both myself and others. Internet searches can run you down rabbit holes and left me wondering if I was broken.
At the beginning of 2018 I found International Sex Educator Jaiya Ma. She has given 20 years of her life so far, to discovering how we tick and how to have the sex life we want, whatever that maybe. I took her Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course (twice) and Ignite Your Passion. This is truly leading edges sex education. I have made dramatic changes to my own relationship; I love the expansion into who I am in this space. I am so inspired by her work I have joined her in her mission to create a more sex positive world. I was truly honoured to be accepted into her coaching team. 2019 saw me certified. This is not a show up for a weekend and get a certificate this is 18 months of heavy duty learning (I am at somewhere around 500 hours now), with live coaching in the USA and ongoing development to maintain my license. I’m committing to a new career and I am so excited. June is when my new company Partnership Matters went live. My mission is to help those that are interested to have a healthy, happy and fulfilling, consensual sex life no matter what that might be.
Training, qualifications & experience
NLP Master Practitioner INLPTA 2010 (Practitioner 2005) Active since 2005
Post Graduate Certificate in Relational Organisational Gestalt (2015)
Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Coach (2019) Active coaching internationally.
Areas of coaching we deal with
Other areas of coaching I deal with
Relationship and Intimacy coaching
What are the Possibilities Call £250.00 can be complementary use CODE: LCD if booked through my website www.partnershipmatters.com
Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course coached £POA
VIP Client packages 6 months or one Year £POA
Vivien Burke is an upstanding coach and all around passionate human being. I have known Vivien since March of 2018 and am pleased to have had the honour to have her as one of our Erotic Blueprint™ Certified coaches. Her strong character, her wisdom and willingness to learn and her passion to help others has been inspiring to watch this past year. It has been a pleasure to know Vivien and to see here vision for this work in in the UK. She is aspiring to great things and I suspect that we will see her become a leader in this field soon. - Jaiya, creator of the Erotic Blueprints™ and Coach Certification Program.
Viv, you have walked this road yourself. You are so thorough, so prepared and with entertaining, wit keep a heavy subject light. Thank you for the safe container you have provided for my husband and me to find our way back to each other. Who knew sex could be such fun, 36 years into a relationship! With deep appreciation S-A M Vancouver
Thank you for our beautiful session today. You took the time early morning to support me... Taking it in... Forever grateful. You are a fabulous coach! Anon Paris
Viv's intelligent and sensitive approach to this complex subject will make you feel safe and taken care of on your personal journey with her. SH UK