About me

 Life can be complicated sometimes we can need support with more than one issue at the same time.

Is this you?

if so, look no further.

I am an accredited transformational coach, mindfulness practitioner, ethical organisational consultant, wellbeing expert and facilitator. I coach, consult, and train both private and public sector clients in the UK.

Early in my career I learned the need for compassionate thinking and emotional intelligence in order to be successful. This is why I became a Transformational Coach.

My motivation is to be of service to others. I believe sustainable success occurs when we use creativity and act authentically.  It happens when we take ownership of our difficulties and develop our strengths.

I'm a warm, reliable coach.

 I have supported entrepreneurs and start-ups, helped people in transition, executive coached managers within multinational and NGOs. I have also worked in schools, local authorities, and provided wellbeing coaching for staff within an engineering company.  
I'm a dyscalculic gay man living with both fibromyalgia and PTSD I have an interest in, though so not exclusively focus on ‘outsiders.’

My key areas of expertise are transition, grief, identity, burnout, career choice, leadership development and resilience.

My key strengths are deep listening, emotional awareness, and an ability to help others plan and measure their progress.

As a coach, I focus on the goals and progress of those I work with. I also offer opportunities for people to enhance their wellbeing. Sessions typically have ‘take home' reviewed at the start of the next session.

I work flexibly and mindfully.

I coach for:

* Executive, Business and Career Coaching (including Redundancy Coaching)

* Leadership Development

* Wellness, Stress, Chronic Conditions and difficult circumstances including Fibromyalgia, recovery from ‘burn out’ including living with PTSD

* Neurodiversity including ASD

* Resilience, Confidence and Self Esteem

* Core values and Purpose

* Personal Development

* Work/life balance

Getting Started
1. Call or email to set up a free half hour consultation. This will give us both a chance to ask questions and find out what you would like from the coaching.
2. If you are happy to proceed, we will set up sessions to follow.
3. Sessions are usually a month apart though other arrangements can be negotiated.

Training, qualifications & experience

  • Transformational Coaching Diploma, practitioner level EMCC certificate, Catalyst 14.
  • Masters in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (theory for use by non-counsellors), Tavistock Institute, London
  • Wellbeing CPD, Diploma
  • Mindfulness Practitioner

Member organisations


European Mentoring and Coaching Council

EMCC UK is part of the Europe-wide European Mentoring & Coaching Council.

Together their aim is to promote good practice and the expectation of good practice in mentoring and coaching across Europe.

EMCC is an independent, impartial and non-profit making organisation.

Other areas of coaching I deal with

  • Dealing With Burnout
  • Identity Coaching
  • Loss and Grief
  • Dealing with Bullying

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From £60.00 to £90.00
Free initial telephone session

Additional information

Free ‘chemistry’ session via telephone in order to:
Ask Questions

  • Explain the coaching process and explain the European Mentoring and Coaching Council Code of Practice.
  • Explain my approach
  • See if the alliance will be suitable for both of us

Fees after: £90 per session; reductions can be negotiated with prior agreement

All my work is confidential and contracted for. Sessions can be in person or online.


Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday

Monday to Friday- Day time and Evening.

Also available at Weekends.

Further information


“Neil has been a fantastic influence and a major help to me”
“Neil has great skills as a life coach, a fantastic listener, very empathetic, gives you the time to speak, express yourself, and always seems to understand what you're trying to say, even if you don't know. All of this while staying very professional and astute. We have covered many subjects and Neil has used many approaches and methods. Neil has been a fantastic influence and a major help to me, I would strongly recommend his services.”

“Neil has helped me to think of my problems differently and come up with solutions”
“Neil is very respectful, and I like that he asks how much you would like to be challenged at the start of each session. He is always encouraging and positive and this really helps me to take stock of what I have achieved, even if it doesn’t always feel like I have achieved very much. I like that Neil gives space for a large range of things to be talked out- since many of these things are often connected it is really helpful to be able to talk about things that may not always seem relevant. Whilst adopting a new way of thinking is tough, Neil has helped me to think of my problems differently and come up with solutions that I had never thought about before.”

“I wouldn’t have known where to start… without guidance and support from Neil”
“A huge benefit for me was just feeling like I had a safe space where I was heard, respected and supported, and honouring this commitment each month allowed me to think about the areas of my life much more actively and expansively, and as a result reach some really positive conclusions. It was beneficial being able to work through some of my issues and areas of uncertainty without any fear of judgement or rejection. Overall, coaching allowed me to really configure my own values, tune into my purpose and identify the blocks in my way and why. I wouldn’t have known where to start going about this without guidance and support from Neil.”

“Genuine empathy and passion in supporting his coachees”
“Genuine empathy and passion in supporting his coachees. Resourceful set of tools to both empower the coachee and support coaching sessions. Creativity in picking up what and when sets of tools could be handy. Integrity, openness. Enthusiastic, supportive.”

“I felt more confident on whether I was on the right path or otherwise”
“I found the coaching sessions very useful to draw out of my thinking of various topics. I mainly used the coaching sessions to work out the best way to do something or brainstorm ideas and benefited from the challenge that coaching (Neil) provided.

Coaching helped me to think more clearly about topics after the sessions and I felt more confident on whether I was on the right path or otherwise.”

“Neil…really helped me clarify and progress my journey”
“I…appreciate the way the conversations are not forced in anyway but organic and sometimes guided with a reflection or question(s) with the topic being ultimately my choice. Neil often has very intuitive insights, reflections and observations during our conversations that really helped clarify and progress my journey with one or more of the goals or even on tangential topics.

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Type of session

In person


Neil Lawrence

Neil Lawrence