Loanne T Hor, Relationship Coach
26 Kingston Road
New Malden, Surrey
(+44) 7812 939 051
- Are you stuck in an unfulfilled relationship and don't know how to make it better?
- Are you going through or recovering from a painful divorce?
- Are you single and want to meet the right person to share your life with? Or do you keep attracting the wrong type of people?
If you are struggling with relationship issues, I can help you build a strong foundation including a healthy sense of self worth, knowing yourself better, learning to love yourself, becoming more authentic and more courageous. I can support and help you uncover your hidden talents and passions and I wholeheartedly believe that you can achieve whatever you want if you want it bad enough. My passion is to help you to find the strength to create the life you desire and deserve.
All you need to bring to the coaching table is the willingness to look within, the desire to heal the past, create clear goals, get out of your comfort zone, take actions to move forward to achieve what you want to have in your life.
WHAT CAN I HELP YOU WITH?
In preparation for this journey of getting you to where you want, I will help you to clear out any blockage and emotional baggage that could be holding you back, heal and make peace with the past. Wipe the slate clean so that you can write the next chapter in your life. You might also be experiencing one or some of the symptoms below which we will address:
- Low confidence and self-esteem
- Emotional pain from relational upheaval
- Personal loss and grief
- Weight control
WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?
I know that no single approach is the right one for every person. I bring together the best methods and techniques including NLP and the Time Line Therapy, Hypnosis, Life Coaching and Positive Psychology, Emotional Intelligence, Compassionate Communication... to eliminate problems at their roots and plan the most appropriate, individually tailored Coaching Programme which provide you with the fastest and lasting results.
- Help you to pinpoint the challenges or obstacles that prevented them from successfully manoeuvring through a season in their life.
- Facilitate insights, suggestions, new ideas and action steps that enable you to clearly make decisions and facilitate change.
- Help you to enhance your psychological wellbeing and in turn the quality of your life.
- Set powerful goals towards your compelling future.
- Motivate you, believe in you, stretch you, challenge your limiting beliefs, hold you accountable to the actions that you've agreed to take. Being here for you while you change! And it can happen very fast! Then we celebrate your success!
HOW I WORK?
Call or email me to schedule a FREE initial consultation to establish if we are the right fit to work together. I listen with great care and empathy, to understand exactly your present situation, your challenges and what you want to achieve in your life.
I'll tailor a programme that is right for your unique situation to get you from where you are to where you want to be.
I'll email you a Welcome pack to includes a Questionaire for you to fill in and email back to me together with the signed Coaching Contract.
We can then schedule our first Breakthrough session which usually last up to two hours.
We meet face to face once a week, once a fortnight if you are in the vicinity of Kingston Upon Thames, Surrey.
I offer unlimited email support during your Coaching programme.
For more details please don't hesitate to contact me.
MORE ABOUT ME
When I was 13 years old, my family moved to the UK from Vietnam, as my Dad was in the Diplomatic service. I had the privilege of experiencing two completely different cultures at a young age. On the one hand, it was exhilarating, so much to see and learn, so exciting, on the other hand, it was very confusing, I didn't really know who I was.
I suffered from depression but didn't even know it at the time. I got married early and had two lovely boys but unfortunately, my marriage was troubled due to my immaturity. He then died, I felt alone and frightened. I soon got together with someone else, and that relationship wasn't good either, so I got even more depressed at this point.
My love of reading has saved my life. I used to spend lots of time at the bookstore after dropping my children off at school. I read books on personal development, positive thinking, understanding childhood problems... As I applied what I learnt to my life, I began to feel better, excited about life again and my confidence grew. I had a kind Pastor that helped me during this troubled time, he was also qualified as a Clinical Psychologist, he was my mentor, my coach, my counsellor and my bible teacher all at the same time. On my own, I also studied many Life Coaching courses, the NLP course helped me to make sense of my past and healed the emotional wounds so that I could envision what I want in the future. As my confidence grew my second marriage got worse and we divorced.
To make a long story short, I'm now married to a wonderful man. Our life together is full of joy and happiness. We share passions for travelling, sports, long walks and good food.
Having experienced the power of Coaching and the Therapeutic Intervention of NLP and having someone to help and support me while I was learning and growing was more valuable than anything else I could ever imagine.
Looking back, the difficult part of my life was so valuable, through hardship, I researched and learnt all I can so I could create a better life for myself, and now I want to be here for you if you are going through challenging times. Help is only a phone call, an email away, so don't suffer in silence and let life pass you by when there's so much you can do. The advanced technology of NLP and the Timeline Therapy can unravel for you what had kept you imprisoned all these years. The first step is probably the hardest but once you are on a new path of self-discovery and self-care, life will blossom like a flower when it's ready!
With love and blessings
Training, qualifications & experience
MY COACHING QUALIFICATIONS
- City and Guilds Adult Education Teachers' Certificate 1997
- Performance Coaching Diploma, New Castle College 2002
- Personal Development Coach Training, Powerchange 2003
- Certified Life Coaching Course, New Castle College 2003
- Professional Coach, The Coaching Academy, awarded Distinction 2004
- Powerchange Coach, awarded Gold Standard 2010
- NLP Practitioner Coach, Powerchange 2010
- Certified Life Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
- Certified Life Purpose Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
- Certified Happiness Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
- Time Line Therapy TM Practioner, Life Training System 2017
- Practitioner of Hypnosis, Life Training System 2017
- The Communication Skills, Life Training System 2018
I trained as a Beauty Therapist and opened my home Salon business helping women to look good on the outside, to wear the right colours for their skin tone, the clothes that flatter their body shape.
From 2000 to 2010 I ran this business part-time while I studied Life Coaching, NLP, Hypnosis and all the other techniques because I felt that looking good on the outside is very fleeting, it always requires maintenance and you never feel completely happy because your self worth is dependant on you looking look, which put a lot of pressure on yourself. But when we do the work to change ourselves from the inside out, life is better, easier and much more fulfilling. We are loved for who we are rather what you have to do to earn love.
Since 2010 I only do Coaching and love every minute of it.
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FREE initial Discovery session over the Phone, Skype or FaceTime.
Everyone's journey is different and unique. When we have spoken together, I will have a better idea of how specifically I can help you. There are a number of options including programmes from 4 to 12 sessions and individual breakthrough sessions.
For more details please contact me
I had never thought of coaching or considered being coached as a method of getting better; I ignorantly thought coaching was for professionals, not a solvent for depression.
I had been feeling so low for so long and had been bringing up my son on my own for 3 or 4 years when I met Loanne. I had a full-time job I didn’t like, a Manager who didn’t appreciate me and a relationship with the father of my child, which was still very toxic. All I wanted was love, a home to live in and a job where I could reach my full potential and earn the respect I deserved. I wanted a divorce from my husband and a new life for my son.
It was my close friend who recommended Loanne and when I met her I was immediately grateful. I realised I wasn’t depressed all these years, I just needed to change my life; my way of thinking, my career, my stability and overall my general wellbeing to make me the Mum I wanted to be and the person I always thought I was.
Loanne has a very calming influence, which helped me open up immediately; she rest assured me that it was ok to feel this way, because it can only get better from now on. More than anything Loanne was genuine, she cared so much and felt so strongly about healing people and making lives better. I felt like there was a new way now to look at things and this incredible lady was going to help me do it. Loanne made me realise this is an investment in me, something I need to be serious about and be committed. It was a challenge and I wanted it!
Having experienced many years of counselling, anti-depressants, advice from my mum, my friends and work colleagues, my husband – no one could fix me – I was muddled and confused on what advice to take, manipulated even at times. Loanne shaped my way of thinking, she helped me think deeply about what I really wanted and made me realise that nothing was impossible. Loanne listened and turned all that was negative in my thoughts into a positive movement of change, she helped me realise I must cherish myself and believe in the change that was about to happen.
Loanne gave me tasks to start changing things in my life, these were very small steps, but ones I now feel are so powerful. It was hard at first and very different for me as I was used to dwelling on the past and trying to find answers and unfortunately, this just made me feel angry and upset. It numbed who I was and made me resent others, when all I needed was love.
Instead, now I think about the things that are wonderful in my life; my beautiful son, my Mum, my friends and most of all myself. All the things I took for granted were now shining. I started to see great things happening for me, and when I was knocked down I remained positive that it is all to do with destiny. If a door closes on me it is because something better is waiting.
If you are struggling in life, whatever it might be, Loanne gives you a time-frame and a way to get through it. I cannot stress enough how genuine and wonderful she is; every day I am grateful having met her and investing in myself. I have a lifetime friend and we plan to meet for coffee very soon.
Since seeing Loanne, I have a new job which meets all of my ambitions and more, I have a wonderful relationship with my Mum, I cherish the time with my Son. The biggest obstacle of all is that I am divorcing my husband and buying a flat on my own, something I thought I would never achieve, but having met Loanne she helped me realise how strong and clever I really was!
Most of all I feel content & happy and grateful for the world we live in and my biggest love of all my Son Tobias (little T) J
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I was at first hesitate about coming to coaching as I felt it was a problem I could work through on my own, my marriage was spiralling out of control, we could not agree on anything and I just felt very lonely in the relationship, that I was seriously thinking of walking away!
Having a family and wanting to make it work for the benefit of all of us, Loanne was a last resort attempt to save our relationship!
I was nervous about opening up with a complete stranger, however, I had nothing to worry about!
The coaching with Loanne was invaluable and I don't think my marriage would have survived without it!
Loanne helped me gain back my confidence which I had lost. I also learned about a situation in the past that was holding me back.
Being able to address these issues was a way of dealing with them to then move on.
Loanne also helped me realise that I am in control of what happens to me and that if I want to change something, it has to come from me first and that I cannot expect other people to change if I am stuck in my old thought patterns.
Loanne has ultimately given me more confidence and also made me realise I have choices.
She is very inspirational and after the 10 sessions, my marriage was back to how it was years ago, we were now engaging with each other and actually talking which had not happened for so long!
In my ten sessions with Loanne, its clear that she is very passionate about what she does and her knowledge and guidance is like nothing I have experienced before!
I would recommend anyone seeking relationship advice, support and guidance to seek out Loanne, she is the best!!!
I had just moved to London from Scotland. My husband’s job became tenuous overnight, due to the market crash. I had left my children in Scotland studying in Uni. On top of this my beloved grandmother was dying. My life was in limbo. I was reluctant to make a new life in London as we were not going to be here long, or so I thought. I was still craving my old life – I was homesick and missed my family terribly!
Loanne recommended I try a Breakthrough Coaching session using the Time Line Therapy. I was curious and excited at the same time. She helped me to realise how important it is to live in the present and the power I have to shape my future. Loanne guided me through the whole of my timeline, starting from as early back as I can remember and then work my most prominent memories through to the present and then onto the future. I was able to create a vision how I want to live, with meaning and purpose for the rest of my life then set goals around what I wanted to do. The process was more powerful than I could ever imagined
I found myself throwing myself into making a new life in London. I feel fulfilled and have never been happier. The Coaching Session with Loanne was astonishingly emotional for me, which did take me by surprise because I am not a spiritual person, however, the experience was wholly therapeutic. I left feeling a renewed vigour for life.
“Coaching with Loanne allowed me to accept that I cannot live someone else's life for them and that I am not responsible for the mistakes they make. I have learned to forgive myself for not being perfect and now I am a much more calm and balanced person. Thank you Loanne, you have given me my life back.”
I had already read lots of self-help books, watched videos and listened to audios. Through all mediums I have learned from, nothing beats having Coaching from Loanne, she really listened and understood the vision I have for my life.
Loanne's calm positive approach helped me realised I could do anything I wanted, and how to feel happy and wealthy NOW rather than when I’ve achieved my goals. This put me in a much better state of mind and I now make choices out of abundant rather than of lack. She also helped me to create a plan of actions that I need to take, to create the life I want to live.
I'm now leaving my current workplace and country to pursue my dream of opening my own business and to be with my wife and daughter.
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Monday to Friday at Aston Clinic for face-to-face sessions. Telephone, Skype and FaceTime if you are not in the vicinity of Kingston Upon Thames.