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NLP Trainer&Master Prac. EFT Trainer&Advanced Prac. Reiki

About me

I work with children and teens, mostly age 11-18yrs who are struggling with their sense of self-worth, friendship issues, low self-esteem, anxiety, angry outbursts and sometimes more serious issues around eating, sleeping and behaviour.

I use a range of activities depending on the child or teen. Some really love working creatively with art, LEGO, collage and vision boards, poetry. Others want to talk it through. I show them how to use EFT tapping to manage day to day emotions and we combine this with art (Picture Tapping) in the session to explore areas that they would prefer not to talk about. Energy healing clears negative emotions and traumas.  

We usually start with a brief chat over whatsapp so they can see who I am and 'check me out'! 

Then we have a 90 minute session to do a real deep dive into what's been happening and what they have experienced that's led up to this session. This is generally face to face where possible. 

Then we agree what they want to work on and what outcome they'd like to see so we can both measure how it's going. 

This will usually be done through online sessions but can be face to face. These will be an hour and focus on how they're getting on with making the changes they need and have learnt in the last session, then building on that for the next week.

I will also do sessions with the main carer parent so they can support this emotional and mental growth. If your child has had a trauma in birth or early childhood, this is extremely helpful as a first session.

I offer a 30 minute free discovery session so get in touch and find out how I can help.

 age and love to work on relationship issues with women, sports and body related issues, unhealthy attachments. 

I am trained in NLP, EFT, Matrix Reimprinting, Reiki and Meta Health.

I am also the author of many books on NLP for children, teens and parents. 

Training, qualifications & experience

Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) - Trainer and Coach

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT/ tapping) Trainer and Coach

Matrix Re-imprinting Practitioner

Matrix Birth Reimprinting Practitioner

PTT (Picture tapping technique) Trainer and Coach

Reiki Master Teacher and Practitioner

Trained by

EFT - Karl Dawson
NLP - Sue Knight
NLP Sports - Jeremy Lazarus

Reiki - Debbie Lawrence

Matrix Reimprinting - Karl Dawson

Matrix Birth Reimprinting - Sharon King

NHS approved
Former Montessori Teacher
Mum of four children
Children's Market Researcher (15 years)

Member organisations


The Association for NLP (ANLP)

The Association for Neuro Linguistic Programming (ANLP) is a UK Association for NLP Professionals.

Other areas of coaching I deal with

Young people

EFT and Matrix Reimprinting

Matrix Birth Reimprinting

Pregnancy and birth trauma

Ancestral issues

Anxiety, stress


Low self-esteem




Upcoming events


£85.00 per session
Free initial online session

Additional information

60 mins £85

90 mins £125

Four x 1hr sessions £300

Six x 1hr sessions £400

NLP & EFT Kids Practitioner Training (live 1:1) £999 / Group £599

Pre-school Parents course £595

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun

I can always take a quick call or leave me a message and I'll get straight back to you. I know your call matters.

Further information

I work intuitively by listening to my client,  finding out what a good outcome looks, sounds and feels like for them and allowing them to explore options and possibilities for change.

I've worked with kids for more than 25 years and I know how to get them to open up in a safe space where there's no judgement. If they find it easier to talk while we walk around the garden or if they want to stroke the dog, or use play and art therapy, then we can create their best outcome that way. 

Author of
'Understanding children and Teens'

'Empower your Kids! A coaching guide for parents'

NLP for Children
NLP for Tweens
NLP for Teens
NLP for Teachers
NLP for Parents
NLP for New Mums
NLP for Back to Work
NLP for Weight Loss
Be a happier parent with NLP
Self-Esteem Workbook
NLP Workbook
Secrets of the NLP Masters
Children's fiction as JudyBee

Published articles

Hitcham Vale, Parliament Lane, Burnham, Slough, Berkshire, SL1 8NT

125 Goldstone Crescent, Hove, East Sussex, BN3 6BB

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Young people

Key details

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