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About me

Families need help at the moment. I'm seeing children and teens for anxiety, anger, self confidence, depression, eating and sleep issues, learning struggles, so many problems. Luckily I  have a number of tools at my fingertips having trained in neuro linguistic programming (NLP), Emotional Freedom technique (EFT) or tapping as it's usually called, Reiki and Matrix Reimprinting. I often find children and teens respond well to art therapy as well.

I train and coach NLP (Neuro Linguistic programming),  EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique - Tapping), PTT (Picture Tapping Technique), Art Therapy and Mindfulness. It's extremely beneficial to have a breadth of therapies at your fingertips. I also offer Walking Therapy as teens are very keen on being outside and making a separation between school and therapy.

Summary of the training programmes I run

1. NLP & EFT Kids Practitioner

The course you need in order to run your own business helping children and teens
It includes training in all the techniques I use in my practice ; NLP, EFT, Art Therapy, Mindfulness/Meditation

Certificated course with assignments

You must either have your own children and/or already work with children to qualify for training
You will be expected to get up to speed with NLP using my NLP Workbook before taking the course if you do not have an NLP qualification

Two options for learning

a) Live course £1,297
- we meet live on zoom or in person (when we can) - bear in mind GMT Time Zone please!
- you are joined into my student group where you can share ideas and read other students assignments
- I go through each module with you in real time
- we do the practical exercise together
- I can share real examples of each exercise, technique or activity
- you can ask questions about the module as they arise
- you do an assignment for each module and get feedback
- you do a final assignment on. topic of your choice
- you get a certificate

b) Less Live £497
- you download each module as you're ready
- you do the exercises yourself
- no certificate
- you can pay to join demos, swap sessions and practice sessions with the main student group
- you are joined into a WhatsApp group with other Less-Live students

•Welcome and Intro
•Brief intro to NLP, EFT, PTT, Clean Language
•Module 1 - NLP beliefs of excellence
•Module 2 - Compelling outcomes, skills and qualities, anchoring and Circle of Excellence
•Module 3 - Overcoming limiting beliefs using Perceptual Positioning and Time Line
•Module 4 – EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
•Module 5 – Art Therapy and PTT (Picture Tapping Technique)
•Module 6 - NLP Modelling process
•Module 7 - VAK, Metaprogrammes, Deletions/Distortions/Generalisations
•Module 8 - Mindfulness
•Module 9 - The Drama Triangle
•Module 10 - Inner child work

Email me for the full course details or to arrange a video chat about the course and its suitability to your needs.

I am NLP Master Practitioner, NLP Trainer, EFT Trainer, Advanced EFT Practitioner, Matrix Reimprinting Practitioner and Matrix Birth Reimprinting Practitioner. I am also a PTT Practitioner.

I have a new book out - 'Understanding children and teens - a practical guide for parents, teachers and coaches' and another due out at the end of March - Empower your kids. A coaching guide for parents.

I am also the author of - Be a happier parent with NLP, NLP Workbook, Self-Esteem Workbook, Secrets of the NLP Masters and the Engaging NLP series of workbooks for children, tweens, teens, parents, teachers, new mums. I have published a couple of EBooks; Confidence for Kids and Positive Parenting with NLP.

I work from home in Burnham near Maidenhead (Bucks/Berks border) and online using Skype and Zoom. I also work from Hove in Sussex and I am looking to rent a room in Surrey as well once we are out of lockdown. 

Training, qualifications & experience

Reiki Level 2

EFT Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping)

Matrix Re-imprinting

Matrix Birth Reimprinting

PTT (Picture tapping technique)

EFT Trainer (trained with Karl Dawson)

NLP Trainer (trained with Sue Knight)

NLP Master Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Business Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Sports Practitioner (Jeremy Lazarus)

NHS approved
Former Montessori Teacher
Mum of four children
Children's Market Researcher (15 years)

Member organisations


The Association for NLP

The Association for Neuro Linguistic Programming (ANLP) is a UK Association for NLP Professionals.

Other areas of coaching I deal with

Young people

EFT and Matrix Reimprinting

Matrix Birth Reimprinting

Pregnancy and birth trauma

Ancestral issues

Anxiety, stress


Low self-esteem




Upcoming events


60 mins £85

90 mins £125

Four x 1hr sessions £300

Six x 1hr sessions £400

NLP & EFT Kids Practitioner Training (live 1:1) £1,297 / Less live £497

Pre-school Parents course £595

Further information

Author of
Understanding children and Teens

Empower your Kids! A coaching guide for parents

NLP for Children
NLP for Tweens
NLP for Teens
NLP for Teachers
NLP for Parents
NLP for New Mums
NLP for Back to Work
NLP for Weight Loss
Be a happier parent with NLP
Self-Esteem Workbook
NLP Workbook
Secrets of the NLP Masters
Children's fiction as JudyBee

Published articles

Also registered with Therapy Directory.

Hitcham Vale
Parliament Lane

125 Goldstone Crescent
East Sussex

Type of session

In person
Home visits

Practical details

Sign language Unspecified
Other languages None


Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a life coach's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the life coach to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.

Wheelchair user access Unspecified


I can always take a quick call or leave me a message and I'll get straight back to you. I know your call matters.


Judy Bartkowiak NLP/EFT Trainer.Child / Youth coaching, self-esteem / confidence

Judy Bartkowiak NLP/EFT Trainer.Child / Youth coaching, self-esteem / confidence