Judy Bartkowiak - Family Therapy with NLP and EFT
125 Goldstone Crescent
01628 660618 / 07917 451245
You are not alone. It may feel like it sometimes when you spend all day worrying about how they will be when you pick them up from school, when you wonder if you'll even be able to get them into school or when every time your mobile goes, you fear it's the school with a problem about your child or teen.
I like to have a session with you (and your partner if possible) first because in many cases I can suggest another way to handle what's going on and also address any issues that may stem from your own childhood that may be getting in the way of making the best parenting choices. For example, if you were heavily criticised or had a limiting belief such as 'I'm not good enough' or 'I can't trust anyone' these will make it harder for us to be effective in our parenting role.Also, how you and your partner work as a team (even if you are not physically in the same house) will have an impact on how your child responds to you.
The first session with your child or teen will be an hour and a half in order to really explore what's going on for them, what they'd like help with (and it may not be what you expect although patterns do cross into different areas of our life) and I introduce them to some basic NLP principles. There will usually then be four one hour sessions with your child or teen as we work through creating new patterns and behaviour, new and positive ways of thinking and being and making adjustments as they try them out.
I use a number of different ways of working depending on your child and what seems to work best with them. Some like to talk, but mostly they don't! So by using art therapy, music, drumming, Lego, and lots of different exercises and games, we discover what's going on and how to make changes.
Where there is no specific issue yet you feel your child will benefit from a course of Life Skills, I recommend the four session Confidence and Resilience Programme which is extremely good for the transition to Secondary School. Similarly, the Exam Stress Buster course.
If you aren't local then don't worry, this work can very easily be done online through Skype or similar platform. Children and teens respond very well to this.
Weekly, I run Parenting chats on different topics from my home in Burnham and I'm looking to run these online as well.
I am an NLP Kids Practitioner Trainer and this course is done over four full days or 12 x one hour Skype sessions.
Judy Bartkowiak is an NLP Kids Coach, Trainer and Author of - Be a happier parent with NLP, NLP Workbook, Self-Esteem Workbook, Secrets of the NLP Masters and the Engaging NLP series of workbooks for children, tweens, teens, parents, teachers, new mums. I have published a couple of EBooks; Confidence for Kids and Positive Parenting with NLP.
I work from home in Burnham near Maidenhead (Berkshire) and from my mum's home in Hove (Sussex), from The Marlow Clinic (South Bucks), The Sunshine Clinic, Send (Surrey) and online using Skype.
Download my free app NLP Family to get regularly updated tips for children, parents, teachers, teens and coaches. Also free EBooks and worksheets.
Training, qualifications & experience
EFT Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping)
Matrix Birth Reimprinting
PTT (Picture tapping technique)
NLP Trainer (trained with Sue Knight)
NLP Master Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Business Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Sports Practitioner (Jeremy Lazarus)
NLP Kids Practitioner (Gemma Bailey)
Former Montessori Teacher
Mum of four children
Children's Market Researcher (15 years)
Areas of coaching I deal with
Other areas of coaching I deal with
EFT and Matrix Reimprinting
Photos & videos
Parent(s) session 1 hr Skype £65
First session with child/teen 1.5hrs £85
Four x 1hr sessions £250
NLP Practitioner Training £950 (residential) £850 Skype
- Does your child feel like a victim?
- How to talk about feelings with your child or teen
- The power of story telling
- How well do you cope with change?
- Five hot tips for managing anger in kids
- Mindfulness for mums
- Making friends
- Connecting with kids
- Training the inner dragon
- Do you have an active child?
- Confidence for kids
NLP for Children
NLP for Tweens
NLP for Teens
NLP for Teachers
NLP for Parents
NLP for New Mums
NLP for Back to Work
NLP for Weight Loss
Be a happier parent with NLP
Secrets of the NLP Masters
Children's fiction as JudyBee
Type of session
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I can always take a quick call or leave me a message and I'll get straight back to you. I know your call matters.