Judy Bartkowiak - NLP Kids
125 Goldstone Crescent
01628 660618 / 07917 451245
I have a long history of working with children; having my own four, running a Montessori Nursery School, conducting market research focus groups with children and of course running a successful children's therapy practice.
I say 'successful' because I love the way children change so readily from being hampered by their limiting beliefs to moving forward believing in themselves and having a few back-up strategies to use when they are struggling, which, let's face it, we all do sometimes, don't we?
Sometimes parents prefer to come to me themselves so they can learn how to support their children in whatever they are going through and other times, the children or young people come and learn for themselves.
I regularly run series of sessions for confidence and resilience either individually or in small group workshops, face to face and online, which children and young people often prefer.
I take children as I find them, they are very present and in the moment so we look forward to what they want right now and what's happening to them in their life right now, that they'd like to change.
We don't look back because children seldom remember what they did last week, yet alone, a few years ago unless of course this has been the cause of the problem they face now. Nevertheless, we still work on how they feel right now about this past event.
NLP is all about how what they believe about themselves, their abilities and qualities, can get in the way of what they could achieve. So whether they want to make the school football team, pass the 11+, make more friends or lose weight, there are patterns. The way they process their world will map across different life situations at school, at home, in their sport and with their friends as it does with you. I can detect these patterns that aren't working and find better patterns that they don't even realise they have and get them focused on these more resourceful beliefs.
Essentially therapy with me is fun and an eye-opener for them. We might walk around the garden, do some art and craft, drumming, play some music, whatever it takes for them to feel relaxed and able to share what they want to get from the sessions.
I've written lots of books which you can buy from my website or on Amazon so you might prefer to get a taster of my style and approach, introduce your child or young person to one of my workbooks.
I train parents and teachers in NLP and I run masterclasses for existing practitioners in how to use the techniques with children and young people.
Judy Bartkowiak is an NLP Kids Coach, Trainer and Author of - Be a happier parent with NLP, NLP Workbook, Self-Esteem Workbook, Secrets of the NLP Masters and the Engaging NLP series of workbooks for children, tweens, teens, parents, teachers, new mums. I have published a couple of EBooks; Confidence for Kids and Positive Parenting with NLP.
I work from home in Burnham near Maidenhead (Berkshire) and from my mum's home in Hove (Sussex), from The Marlow Clinic (South Bucks), The Sunshine Clinic, Send (Surrey) and online using Skype.
Download my free app NLP Family to get regularly updated tips for children, parents, teachers, teens and coaches. Also free EBooks and worksheets.
Training, qualifications & experience
EFT and currently qualifying as Matrix Re-imprinting Practitioner
NLP Trainer (trained with Sue Knight)
NLP Master Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Business Practitioner (Sue Knight)
NLP Sports Practitioner (Jeremy Lazarus)
NLP Kids Practitioner (Gemma Bailey)
Former Montessori Teacher
Mum of four children
Children's Market Researcher (15 years)
Children's Life Coach (10 years)
Areas of coaching I deal with
Other areas of coaching I deal with
EFT and Matrix Reimprinting
Photos & videos
A first chat on the phone or email exchange is a good way to find out whether you think I can help then we can make a face to face appointment
First appointments are an hour and a half and you may stay for at least the first half hour if you like. This costs £85. Subsequent one hour sessions are £65. I recommend three appointments to ensure that the new behaviour becomes well established. After this you can call me at any time for a free session via Skype.
Sometimes I suggest a family session so you can all learn how NLP works together. This is a two hour session and costs £100.
I usually incorporate an activity such as drumming or art and craft into my sessions as I find children talk more freely when they are occupied.
First sessions usually take place in my home where I find children feel relaxed and unpressured and we can go outside, look at the hens, collect objects from the garden to talk about and so on. Subsequent sessions can take place there or at one of the clinics I work from in Marlow, Cobham or Woking.
Lots of parents ask me what they should tell their child or teenager about why they're coming to see me. I suggest you tell them that just like they learn Maths and English at school this is learning about how their mind works, they can learn all about themselves and how they can get more of what they want and less of what they don't want.
- The power of story telling
- How well do you cope with change?
- Five hot tips for managing anger in kids
- Mindfulness for mums
- Making friends
- Connecting with kids
- Training the inner dragon
- Do you have an active child?
- Confidence for kids
- How can you make a difference with NLP?
NLP for Children
NLP for Tweens
NLP for Teens
NLP for Teachers
NLP for Parents
NLP for New Mums
NLP for Back to Work
NLP for Weight Loss
Be a happier parent with NLP
Secrets of the NLP Masters
Children's fiction as JudyBee
Type of session
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Contact me to arrange a convenient time.