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The protective use of force NVC workshop
What do you do when kindness isn’t enough?
Sometimes, keeping the peace means holding a boundary. In this powerful session, we explore how to use force – not to punish, dominate, or control – but to protect life, safety, and mutual respect.
Join us for a deep dive into The Protective Use of Force – one of the most misunderstood and essential elements of Nonviolent Communication (NVC).
In this workshop, you’ll learn:
- The difference between protective force and punitive force.
- How to hold boundaries and protect needs without blame or escalation.
- How to identify when a situation requires intervention – and how to respond with clarity.
- Navigating power dynamics with integrity and emotional grounding.
- Scripts and sentence stems for high-stakes or emotionally intense situations.
- How to protect yourself and others while staying rooted in empathy.
This workshop is ideal for:
- Parents, educators, leaders, and therapists who hold space for others.
- Anyone navigating conflict, power struggles, or aggressive behaviour.
- Those working on assertiveness, boundaries, and staying grounded under pressure.
- Come away with the confidence to act – with clarity, care, and purpose – even when things get tough.
"Protective use of force is not about control. It’s about honouring life – including your own."



Ayesha Giselle Dornelly Expert Life Coach and Clinical Solution focused Hypnotherapist & Pyschotherapist. Ayesha helps individuals build their confidence and self-resilience to rise above the pressures and stresses of their hectic days, help free you from troubling emotions, anxiety, shame all whilst supporting you to fulfil your potential.