Everything Emanates From Your Inner World
Your outer world is a direct reflection of your inner world.
When something is not working in your life it always means that you need to look to your inner world to see what needs to change. Once we change our inner world for the better, it automatically leads to positive changes in our outer world.
If ever I find myself on the receiving end of any negative behaviour I always look to myself to see how I am allowing this to happen. When I adjust how I behave around that person their behaviour towards me always improves. Therefore it is never “how can I change this person” and always “how can I change”?
If you are someone who, for instance, is always changing jobs or relationship partners and thinking that the new job or new person will make everything better then you are looking externally to fix something that is broken within you and cannot therefore be fixed by looking externally.
It is not always easy to look at yourself but I can tell you from experience that it is always worth it.