Loanne T Hor, Relationship Coach/ NLP Practitioner
Graham Spicer Institute
15 Dukes Avenue
26 Kingston Road
New Malden, Surrey
(+44) 7812 939 051
- Are you stuck in an unfulfilled relationship and don't know how to make it better?
- Are you going through or recovering from a painful divorce?
- Are you single and want to meet the right person to share your life with? Or do you keep attracting the wrong type of people?
If you are struggling with relationship issues, I can help you build a strong foundation including a healthy sense of self worth, knowing yourself better, learning to love yourself, becoming more authentic, more courageous, uncover your hidden talents and passions and wholehearted believe that you can achieve whatever you want if you want it bad enough. My passion is to help you to find the strength to create the life you desired and deserved.
All you need to bring to the coaching table is the willingness to look within, the desire to heal the past, get out of your comfort zone and take actions to move towards what you want to have in your life.
WHAT CAN I HELP YOU WITH?
In preparation for this journey of getting you to where you want, I will help you to clear out any blockage and emotional baggage that could be holding you back, heal and make peace with the past. Wipe the slate clean so that you can write the next chapter in your life. You might also be experiencing one or some of the symptoms below which we will address:
- Low confidence and self-esteem.
- Emotional pain from relational upheaval.
- Personal loss and grief.
- Weight control.
WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?
I know that no single approach is the right one for every person, I bring together the best methods and techniques including NLP and the Time Line Therapy, Life Coaching and Positive Psychology, Emotional Intelligence, Compassionate Communication... to illiminate problems at their roots and plan the most appropriate, individually tailored Coaching Programme which provide you with the fastest and lasting results.
- Help you to pinpoint the challenges or obstacles that prevented them from successfully manoeuvring through a season in their life.
- Facilitate insights, suggestions, new ideas and action steps that enable you to more clearly make decisions and facilitate change.
- Help you to enhance your psychological wellbeing and in turn the quality of your life.
- Set powerful goals towards your compelling future.
- Motivate you, believing in you, stretch you, challenge your limiting beliefs, hold you accountable to the actions that you've agreed to take. Being here for you while you change! Then we celebrate your success!
HOW I WORK?
Call or email me to schedule a FREE intial consultation to establish if we are the right fit to work together. I listen with great care and empathy, to understand exactly your present situation, your challenges and what you want to achieve in your life.
I'll tailor a programme that is right for your unique situation to get you from where you are to where you want to be.
I'll email you a Welcome pack to includes a Questionaire for you to fill in and email back to me together with the signed Coaching Contract.
We can then schedule our first Breakthrough session which usually last up to 1hour50 minutes.
We meet face to face once a week, once a fortnight if you are in the vicinity of Kingston Upon Thames, Surrey.
I offer unlimited email support during your Coaching programme.
I had just moved to London from Scotland. My husband’s job became tenuous overnight, due to the market crash. I had left my children in Scotland studying in Uni. On top of this my beloved grandmother was dying. My life was in limbo. I was reluctant to make a new life in London as we were not going to be here long, or so I thought. I was still craving my old life – I was homesick and missed my family terribly!
Loanne recommended I try a Breakthrough Coaching session using the Time Line Therapy. I was curious and excited at the same time. She helped me to realise how important it is to live in the present and the power I have to shape my future. Loanne guided me through the whole of my timeline, starting from as early back as I can remember and then work my most prominent memories through to the present and then onto the future. I was able to create a vision how I want to live, with meaning and purpose for the rest of my life then set goals around what I wanted to do. The process was more powerful than I could ever imagined
I found myself throwing myself into making a new life in London. I feel fulfilled and have never been happier. The Coaching Session with Loanne was astonishingly emotional for me, which did take me by surprise because I am not a spiritual person, however, the experience was wholly therapeutic. I left feeling a renewed vigour for life.
“Coaching with Loanne allowed me to accept that I cannot live someone else's life for them and that I am not responsible for the mistakes they make. I have learned to forgive myself for not being perfect and now I am a much more calm and balanced person. Thank you Loanne, you have given me my life back.”
I had already read lots of self-help books, watched videos and listened to audios. Through all mediums I have learned from, nothing beats having Coaching from Loanne, she really listened and understood the vision I have for my life.
Loanne's calm positive approach helped me realised I could do anything I wanted, and how to feel happy and wealthy NOW rather than when I’ve achieved my goals. This put me in a much better state of mind and I now make choices out of abundant rather than of lack. She also helped me to create a plan of actions that I need to take, to create the life I want to live.
I'm now leaving my current workplace and country to pursue my dream of opening my own business and to be with my wife and daughter.
Training, qualifications & experience
MY COACHING QUALIFICATIONS
City and Guilds Adult Education Teachers' Certificate 1997
Performance Coaching Diploma, New Castle College 2002
Personal Development Coach Training, Powerchange 2003
Certified Life Coaching Course, New Castle College 2003
Professional Coach, The Coaching Academy, awarded Distinction 2004
Powerchange Coach, awarded Gold Standard 2010
NLP Practitioner Coach, Powerchange 2010
Certified Life Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
Certified Life Purpose Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
Certified Happiness Coaching Course, Transformation Academy 2016
I worked for National Westminster Bank for 2 years.
EMI Accounts Department for 2 years.
I helped run A family business in and around Battersea.
I trained as a Beauty Therapist and opened my home Salon business helping women to look good on the outside, to wear the right colours for their skin tone, the clothes that flatter their body shape.
For the past 15 years, I ran this business part time while I studied Life Coaching, NLP and all the other techniques because I felt that looking good on the outside is very fleeting, it always require maintenance and you never feel completely happy because your self worth is dependant on you looking look, which put a lot of pressure on yourself. But when we do the work to change ourselves from the inside out, life is better, easier and much more fulfilling. We are loved for who we are rather what you have to do to earn love.
I now do Coaching full time and love every minute of it.
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FREE initial Discovery session over the Phone, Skype or FaceTime.
Everyone's journey is different and unique. When we have spoken together, I will have a better idea of how specifically I can help you. There are a number of options including programmes from 4 to 12 sessions and individual breakthrough sessions.
MORE ABOUT ME
When I was 13 years old, my family moved to the UK from Vietnam, as my Dad was in the Diplomatic service. I had the privilege of experiencing two completely different cultures at a young age. On the one hand it was exhilarating, so much to see and learn, so exciting, on the other hand it was very confusing, I didn't really know who I was.
I suffered from depression but didn't even know it at the time. I got married early and had two lovely boys but unfortunately my marriage was troubled due to my imaturity. He then died, I felt alone and frightened. I soon got together with someone else, and that relationship wasn't good either, so I got even more depressed at this point.
My love of reading has saved my life. I used to spend lots of time at the bookstore after dropping my children off at school. I read books on personal development, positive thinking, understanding childhood problems... As I applied what I learnt to my life, I began to feel better, excited about life again and my confidence grew. I had a kind Pastor that helped me during this troubled time, he was also qualified as a Clinical Psychologist, he was my mentor, my coach, my counsellor and my bible teacher all at the same time. On my own, I also studied many Life Coaching courses, the NLP course helped me to make sense of my past and healed the emotional wounds so that I could envision what I want in the future. As my confidence grew my second marriage got worse and we divorced.
To make a long story short, I'm now married to a wonderful man. Our lives together is full of joy and happiness. We share passions for travelling, sports, long walks and good food.
Having experienced the power of Coaching and having someone to help and support me while I was learning and growing was more valuable than anything else I could ever imagined.
Looking back, the difficult part of my life was so valuable, through hardship, I researched and learnt all I can so I could create a better life for myself, and now I want to be here for you if you are going through challenging times. Help is only a phone call, an email away, so don't suffer in silence and let life passes you by when there's so much you can do. The advance technology of NLP and the Timeline Therapy can unravel for you what had kept you imprisioned all these years. The first step is probably the hardest but once you are on a new path of self discovery and self care, life will blossom like a flower when it's ready!
With love and blessings
So that you can get to know yourself better, I have a free worksheet with 9 questions, titled 'How happy am I in my life right now?'
Enjoy, and if you want to email me your answers, just press 'SUBMIT' or if you have questions about anything else, please get in touch.
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Monday to Friday at Aston Clinic and Graham Spicer Institute. For face-to-face sessions. Telephone, Skype and FaceTime if you are not in the vicinity of Kingston Upon Thames.